THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MY BLOG
IM JUST LAUGHING SO HARD
moment of silence 4 ppl who have to deal with surprise dick pics
Lets talk about dick pics for a minute, ok?
People are always confused about the dick pic. “Why do they do that? Why would they think I want to see that?”
We need to all acknowledge that the dick pic is not about you or your needs. It’s not about any social, shared experience of sex in any way.
The dick pic is forced voyeurism. You are forced, for a person’s sexual titillation, to look at their dick. It’s not about you, it’s about them and their pleasure in knowing you’ve been sexually violated.
It’s very similar to those awful Daddykink belt-whipping gifs that people are always like “lol, these are so bad, who thought anyone would find this hot??”
If you really think about it, NO ONE thought anyone else would find those gifs hot. Because it’s not about the viewer’s pleasure, it’s about the creator’s pleasure in knowing that he forced you into being the passive receiver to a gif of him dominating you (or any viewer).
People (especially strangers on dating sites) send dick pics for their own sexual gratification. It’s a complete act on its own, not requiring any specific response from you. They forced you to look at their dick. They get off on you being surprised into looking at their dick.
Lets stop pretending dick pics are a part of sexting or some other social engagement, they’re not. They’re about power trips, control and self-sexual gratification through violation.